FOBD:

i echo what the BITS have said and I also cannot take away this massive pain you have in your heart. WE all know what that feels like.

I guess all I can say is be that man that we saw glimpses of at the wedding. Self confident, charming etc..

I know you are at perhaps your lowest point but YOU KNOW that someday, it will be better , you just have to live long enought to get to that day.

EVERY day I question and cant accept what my wife has done like its some really bad dream but the reality is, IT IS REAL.

I AM NOT what she wants right now and may never be.

i do believe they have glimpses of remorse but not enough to change their behaviour of choices. YOU CANNOY change that no matter how illogical it seems to you.

PLEASE be well FOBD.

We all care about you on this site.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11