Brian... just checking in with you. I'm happy to see that you seem to be doing much better emotionally. I have heard that the P90x program is a b!tch! LOL... Good luck with that!!
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Cause I'm a shucker? I don't know...I guess because I told her if she needed anything to just ask. This is the first time. I guess I should have said no and make her struggle a bit. But I just don't have that in me. I am a giver. That would also drive her away if I told her no.
You shouldn't pay the insurance. Not only does your wife need to feel the consequences of her decisions, but your daughter is an ADULT, and rescuing her like this isn't going to teach her anything about dealing with the real world.
Sounds to me like it's time for BOTH of them to find their BGPs (Big-Girl Panties).
Starsky
I don't know how I missed this post yesterday. That would have been a crappy thing for me to do just days after telling her I would be there for her financially. I agree that I should have said no...just would have made me look like an even bigger @ss
Brian, as a Phys Ed teacher, i would advise you to tread lightly with the p90x. That is a kick a$$ workout and if you are out of shape, i believe it will discourage you unless you modify the workouts.
Too Much too soon. Dont want to preach about fitness but I have seen soooo many people go for the mod eorkouts and a) hurt themselves so they quit b) get overwhelmed so they quit c) see little results so they quit
its like DBing, babysteps, watch your diet more importantly than anything. And moderate workout at the start.
Not trying to discourage you.
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Not at all 9...I saw that P90x wouldn't be for me right now, that's why I got the Power 90. It is for the beginner like me. I am sore as can be right now. I was one of those super jocks before I met my W (6'6" 220). Even had a scheduled tryout with the Oakland A's (dislocated my finger in such a way that the bone came through the skin...After as many injuries as I've had at the times I've had them, I took that as a sign God didn't want me to play sports for a living).
The only thing I CAN'T do right now with the workout is the crappy Power Yoga. Big men should NOT have to do Yoga!!!
Sorry Brian, didnt realize I was talkng with a Jock. So you know the score. Hope I didnt come off as sounding like a know it all.
Oakland A's? Best unis in baseball back in the 70's, loved the stirrups but now Im dating myself. Cause no one else will.
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NO worries...A jock 15 years ago is not a jock now!! I do sometimes think I can do the things I used to do...Not even close!! Right now, I'm just a tall fat man LOL
Our minor league baseball team used to be associated with the A's. Mark McGuire, Jose Canseco, and MANY of the stars of the late 80's early 90's came through Huntsville. Heck, I even went to a game against the Birmingham barons when Michael Jordan played. Let's just say he wasn't that good.
So, I don't feel good today but didn't want to miss work in case my W emailed me. Of course, she probably won't. I just have to get used to not hearing from her at all.
I went to get my hair cut yesterday. The lady that does it has been doing my hair for 22 years now. She told me she saw my W in a grocery store this weekend. I asked her if she said hello to her. She said no because she didn't know if she was with some guy or not. I asked her why she thought that and she said that she saw her hug him. I guess they were in line to pay or something. Not what I wanted to hear but that doesn't change anything. I can only control me. Work on me. If I'm not fixed, I won't be happy.
