Cause I'm a shucker? I don't know...I guess because I told her if she needed anything to just ask. This is the first time. I guess I should have said no and make her struggle a bit. But I just don't have that in me. I am a giver. That would also drive her away if I told her no.
You shouldn't pay the insurance. Not only does your wife need to feel the consequences of her decisions, but your daughter is an ADULT, and rescuing her like this isn't going to teach her anything about dealing with the real world.
Sounds to me like it's time for BOTH of them to find their BGPs (Big-Girl Panties).
Starsky
I don't know how I missed this post yesterday. That would have been a crappy thing for me to do just days after telling her I would be there for her financially. I agree that I should have said no...just would have made me look like an even bigger @ss