In a way, I disagree with Gucci and Harrier (but only from my perspective). I would be more then willing for my wife to have a PA if it meant that we could work things out afterwards. Would it hurt me? Sure it would. Could I get over it? In a heartbeat and never think about it again. To me, my W is the most important thing. The things I did helped drive her away. I will go through pain to get her back. Again, that is just my humble opinion.