Originally Posted By: Truegritter
I don't know what exW wants and it doesn't matter at this point.

I just want to make sure she doesn't upset the apple cart with my parents and get them all confused.


Well my friend,

I was with you right up until this statement.

DB101, Grit. DB101.

What can you control?

XW is gonna say what she wants, and your parents are gonna react in kind.

YOU can't do anything about that, EXCEPT state your feelings about it and let them choke on it for a while.

You don't have to tell me what you want there, I already know that answer...

Get back to basics and remember what we have beaten into your head for the last year.

I really don't want to go through THAT again.

BUT, I will wink


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox