He WAS in California. Which meant he went to ELABORATE lenghts to try to convince me his was here. But it's so stupid, because he booked the flight on his AA account.... which I have access to!!
Again, the behaviorist, picked up on weird behaviors. For example: 1. He came home at 4 yesterday. He knows I can't get home until 4:30 at the earliest. 2. He washed all of his clothes from his suitcase and unpacked it BEFORE I got home. NEVER has he done this in the MANY trips we've taken. He literally will have stuff in the suitcase for weeks after the trip before it's completely cleaned out if I don't do anything to it. 3. He just looked... ashamed. And again, that intuition kicked in and I just felt a fury come over me. I avoided him for most of the night.
This morning while I was getting ready for work and he was sleeping in bed, I just had this overcoming anger come over me. So I go out to the car to get ready to leave, and I look over in his car and his laptop is in there (another odd behavior: he always keeps his laptop in the house and grabs it as he's walking out the door, he never puts it in there first).
So I just decide to go through it.
And there's the f-ing boarding pass from LA to our town. Circled and signed, dated Monday night.
I KNEW he was there. I KNEW it. And now I don't know what to do.
It's in my posession. I don't plan on giving it back. And I seriously doubt he'll notice it missing (he keeps receipts forever... I found ones from 2007 in there... ironically, they were the receipts to purchase my engagement ring). But even if he does notice it missing, what's he going to do? Come to me and say, "hey, have you seen the boarding pass that proves I lied to you for 10 days?"
I am now questioning whether or not I want to be married to him. I'm so angry right now, I don't want him to see his daughter, ever. She does not deserve to have such a lying, decitful, most-likely-cheating, disappointing father in her life.
I know not to act on what I found right now because I am so angry, but I am at a loss as to what to do.
