Braveheart believe what you want but this time you are WRONG! First off you need to reread what i wrote. I DID NOT call my xh. He answered the phone and while I had the chance I asked about our son.....or tried to. I cant call my son because he changed his number and I dont have it and cant get it. BH I dont want my xh to talk to me. If I could contact my son I could care less if he ever talked to me. I have someone in my life and I have moved on. BUT I will NOT move on from without my son in my life. Where my son wants to be in it right now or not. I am STILL HIS MOTHER and I still worry about him and always will. Why do you think I want my xh to speak to me????? He is remarried with a baby. I will not EVER be the person my xh is. If he walked up to me today and spoke nice I would speak back BUT not because I NEED to. Only because he is my sons father and will be grandparents some day, if my son chooses. It really amazes me that you think this. Do you think I dont have a need to speak to my son? Do you think I am making all this up? Really come on BH. Its been 2 yrs and one and half of that I havent spoken with my son. My xh is the last thing on my mind right now....honestly.