First let me say that I do appreciate that you took your time to check in on my sitch. So please know that I say this with respect...
I read your post earlier this evening, before it was edited, and thought to myself "this is exactly the type of attitude and behavior that landed me in this situation in the first place."
Women do like strong, confident men Gucci. But being strong and confident means that you are able to communicate in a strong, confident, and respectful manner.
What my W knows about me, MORE THAN ANYTHING, is that I am strong and confident. I do not need to draw lines in the sand to prove that to her. IMO, your approach would only make me seem insecure and weak.
I know that I am the better man here... and my W knows it... which is one of many reasons why she is coming back to me.
The R between my W and OM is over. There is no question in my mind about this. My W brought it up again tonight to clarify that it is over between them, but that she is not going to b!tch to him. From her perspective she has no reason to be. I can respect that even if I don't like it. OM has not contacted her since the tm on Saturday.
Sorry to swing a 2x4 in your direction Gucci... but I simply don't agree with the advice that you posted on my thread.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
