Country - My advice is to not send her the song or the letter. Either/or would be pursuing and pressure on your W. Hang in there man. You are doing great. Patience is where the key lies.

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Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce