Checking the internet history tonight. I often check it since I have a teen age son who uses my PC. I noticed that my W downloaded a marriage announcement sent from a friend. I asked her 2 days ago if she heard when the wedding would be scheduled, she said she didn't know. The friend recently lost his father and W said the friend was probably too busy to worry about marriage arrangements. This friend is someone my W grew up with and I am not close with him. M wife was obviously lying to me since the wedding is only 2 weeks away and she probably doesn't intend to bring me. We live together and sleep in the same bed so I'm wondering if she is going to make up a "going out with the girls" story or tell me the truth. Give her track record I predict a lie. One interesting note, the suspected OM from my W youth is also friends with the guy who is getting married. I wonder if she plans to spend the night with him? Should I confront that I know about the wedding, or should I play along with the lie and just keep a hapy face?
I would say this is a huge red flag. Sorry I don't have any advice how to react other than If you confront she will lie so dont waste your breath, but I would be willing to bet that you are dead on regarding her plans. It sounds so much like some sh!7 my XW would pull to spend time with OM.
Sorry this is happening. I have been there and know the pain. Just know you are not alone in this.
