Renee, sorry, but I call it like I see it and I call B.S. on your excuse to call your XH. You know beyond any reasoning that this man will not talk to you no matter what! Why didn't you just call your son? Please stop trying to make your XH talk to you! Let it go! Your son is a grown man, call him! If he doesn't want to talk to you, fine, but quit trying to use your son as an excuse to see if you can get your XH to speak to you! I don't mean to sound harsh, but lets get real, this isn't a little boy, your son is a 21 year old man!