Isalnder, please breathe and try to relax. I also fear that may happen to my W some day as she is being careless because I discussed this with her when she was on the way to the mental hospital and she let it slip that no condomes were used.

Why bother conjuring up more ways to hurt ourselves. We have to let them go and let them find their way. And if this way inlcudes them having a child, then you know your answer. There is NO going back from that because they will be connected to OM forever then.

I pray this is not the case for you Islander, I know you would be devasted and I have no words to take away that pain.

Unfortunately, it still falls into the category of beyond our control.

Try and put this out of your mind.

Peace.
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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11