another journal entry while I have a chance. Can't check forum during the day at work beacuse my IT system blocks it (thinks it's porn). W is at the store. She didn't leave the house all day but waits for me to get home from work so I can help D with homework and brush her hair after shower. W texts me as she goes from one store to another and gives periodic updates. I sent her one text because S told me we were out of bread. I am trying to be detached, give space, and not pursue. Before I found this forum I was texting her periodically with "hows it goin, where are you ? etc.". She has been out for 3 hours so far, Is that a long time to go to Target & The Dollar Store even if they are 30-minutes away? I predict that she will come home with 3 bags from each store. In my pre-DB past I had asked why it takes 3 or 4 hours to buy a few bags of stuff. W said it relaxes her to just to walk around and look at all the stuff in the store. This concept is
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
