Bobby man, I'm so sorry for you. Trust me, I know the pain first hand. One great thing you have going for you, you are starting with the resources here. I wish I would have found them sooner and had it when I found out my W was having an A.

First step is just getting control and calming down. Anything you need to do, you need to do with a clear head. Don't let your emotions let you do something you'll regret (something I did many times before finding this resource).

You will need to confront this, but don't rush it. Make sure you do so with strength and compassion. I'm sure you'll get plenty of good advice here. I say wait for now, get strong, read, and then start planning your next move.

BITS

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.