She has not dealt with the pattern of behavior that her childhood trauma has brought on. She will likely not have that awakening until she has a great deal of therapy.
I am dealing with a broken woman and I know that. My desire is not to add to the cracks in her soul...
and, God willing,
Be able to share the mended person she might be.
So what is her first step toward that?
I am so with you here buddy. My H. has had significant trauma in his life. He recognises mine, but refuses to recognise his own, although I see little glimmers of acknowledgment now and then.
At this stage though, I'm trying to forget about H. He's not part of my life by his choice. So perhaps just letting go is best.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
