I dont want to get my friend involved because she is xh's boss. I dont want to ask her to find out anything. My sons gf added me on fb and told me she knew everything that had happened and went on to say some things that son had told her. She thought I was on drugs. (cant believe that), and that son told her I left his dad. I told her the truth then told her I could not be on her page on fb. I thought about it and I didnt want my son to think I am spying on him or getting in his business. That would only make things worse. Although I would love to know what he is doing. I just cant do that. I dont talk to her much and actually I think she and my son have broke it off. So I sit and wonder and pray. I pray that the anger will leave his dad and he will come to his senses someday and realize I am NOT the enemy in this. I just figured it had been two yrs. I mean two yrs. Do they really stay angry that long????? I have never heard of anyone on here being that angry that long. I am in fear that if my son needed me, my xh would not contact me. In fact, I know he wouldnt. BUT I can NOT make my xh talk to me, and be civil to me. Andabelle he has a wife and is happy. I DO NOT want him back adn he knows this. BUT we cant erase that we have a son together. Do you agree?
