empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[BeingMe]

I keep telling myself that OW doesn't have anything that I don't and I actually have more. I have our children, the home, the history, our friends, our families (and a lot of his money :)).

Just remember, it's not what you have or not. You have these things and more, but he won't see it. All he cares about now, is making himself feel good, and the newness/excitement/infatuation of the A will do for awhile.

I am glad you are going to the coaches. You do, indeed, need to take back your power. Throwing him out gave you that, and more, you showed him what your boundaries were. I sometimes wished I had done the same.