empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[canadianMrs.]

I also wonder if DB was working. He was with OW (I just didn't know about it) but he seemed to be happier around the kids and I. Still a long way to go. Back in November when I got the bomb he was ready to D then and there. We decided to work on it one last time. It was more me (his efforts were elsewhere). A few times of frustration I asked him to move out and he would break down and beg me to let him stay. I wonder if he was already in deep with the OW but starting to doubt his reasons against the marriage...but not enough to vocalize it?
I keep telling myself that OW doesn't have anything that I don't and I actually have more. I have our children, the home, the history, our friends, our families (and a lot of his money :)).
When H and I were back in highschool we had a few months were we broke up and he is acting the same way he did then. I let him be, did my own thing, and he came back. Maybe this is history repeating itself. Maybe I'm fooling myself, but I'm trying to get my empowerment back. (Can you tell I talked to DB coach today);)