empowerment over, just had H pack his bags

[BeingMe]

So true. I saw a photo H took of himself to send to OW, and he didn't even look like himself. My children were confused, my one daughter even felt like it was a sort of abuse. She was his 'princess'. I felt as if he wished we never existed.

He has a good relationship with the kids now, but it's been hard in many ways. Most of our family live far away, so they didn't see what was happening, but the one's who were close (my family) felt he should pull his head out of his ... well, you know what I mean. And, my family have always liked my H.

Just belt up and hope the ride is over quickly. It seems, my H is only now making a step out of the proverbial tunnel.

BTW, I wondered why you kicked your H out of the house? Sometimes, it's better to have them in the house to allow yourself opportunities to db. I'm just curious, since there's no going back on that decision.