May, I can only imagine some of your stress. This last post is better. It shows you’re getting stronger. Everyone here is hoping and praying for you in our own ways. Be prepared for a downward cycle, but know it won’t last. You know this. You are a professional here and most of us only have our experiences.

IMO you have a very good chance of a positive outcome here, but it will likely take time. I agree you cannot solve his issues, he must resolve them himself.
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15 minutes later H: Wondering how hard it be to come home.
He is thinking about coming home.
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Make the best choice for you
You want him to see you as the best choice. You are, I think he is beginning to realize this. Be friendly as he works through this so he sees it clearly. Remain upbeat and keep doing what you’re doing, it seems to be working.

Be careful of speculating too much. Work with what you know.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill