Hello GAG, I just read you sitch and experienced a very similar thing. My W however has an Om in the picture, that nobody in the family approves of so I was welcomed to all the functions.

i know what you mean about grieving the loss but feeling guilty about still thinking of the DBing, especially with all the familiar faces around.

hang in there., be there for H but gage how much he wants you around.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11