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[verysad2day]

Last night was really good. In fact, over the last few days, I have noticed my H "peeking over the fence at my picnic." Anyway, I was telling him about a stituation at work and he started telling me that I would never stand up for myself...yada yada yada. I got off the couch and went to bed.

A few minutes later he comes into my room and rudely asks if I am going to bed already? All I said was that I felt that he was being negative towards me. He turned around and slammed the door?

Now what? I was making lots of baby steps.