I dont really have any assets such as a house,stocks and bonds,savings ect. I only have a 1996 vmax and a substantial amount of tools.Would really like to get a DB phone coach but money is VERY tight,I think that an attorney is out of the question for me as it would probably facilitate the divorce faster, also $$$$$$.
A quick update... The first few days after bomb wife was acutally taxting to "check in" and see how my day was going.The last 2 days it seems if she herself has gone dark,no texts or conversation not even a good morning.Her body language is very negative. At first I saw some baby steps to my DBing. Now it seems as if its not working.
Some questions for you all:
Do I stick with the going grey (living in the same house)and give it more time?
Will her reactions to my DBing get worse before they get better?
What kind of behaviors have people seen from a waw under the same roof, do they vacillate?
My boys 14,11 do not want this to happen but have NOT enlisted their aid, How will she respond to their "acting out" over the sitch?
She seems more cold and distant than ever, I have been DBing my butt off.
One positive note she and I made a chart of what we both wanted to change 2 months ago so I have an outline of sorts.
W intent on pushing, talks to the kids about moving youngest son is buying into her fantasy and anounced LOUDLY yesterday "So mom when are we moving I hate this house (rental with lots of property and we have three dogs). I have also noticed that she is losing her temper more and more with the kids which was something I was guilty of. She has taken up the mantle of diciplinarian.
Thanks again for everyone on this board, This is the pnly place I can vent
