Wow....I wish I could say something to make you feel better.
I am very sorry for the loss of your mother.
I will keep you in my prayers.

As for your H....I won't say negative things about him, but shame on him for dumping something like that on you when you needed him the most.

We are all here to support you.

"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."
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