I know this kind of turned into another discussion of my sitch, but I would like to discuss this topic generally here. It does seem to be one where there are opinions on each side. I am sure situations where this may be a good direction, others where it is not. Just curious to hear opinions.

Some things to consider:

Does being friends really always make it easier on the WAS?
Or can this actually make the WAS consider the person they are leaving?
Do the problems that caused the M to collapse have something to do with whether or not being friends may work or not work?

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