I am SO right there with you both. Frustrated! Sounds like Rabbit is the only one who is NOT frustrated these days (good for you Rabbit! Very happy for you and thanks for sharing your good news with us. We LOVE to hear it!)
Sanderika I could strangle your H for not taking responsibility for himself and his decisions.........and Cas, you sound strong, but I can just imagine how you must feel.
Cas, thanks for interpreting Rabbit's "nattering" expression. I have NEVER heard that before. That made my day!
Originally Posted By: dolphin_05
I have been re-reading DR and thinking through some aspects of insisting that ow is gone before I venture out of the house with H. There are definitely arguments for and against.
Cas, I've been wanting to ask if you would summarize the arguments for and against insisting that OW is gone before moving forward in your R with H. I'm feeling frustrated that XH doesn't seem to want to end it with GF#2, even though he has acted frustrated with that R when he is with me.
P.S. I've been wanting to tell you Cas how impressed I am with the introduction to your new thread. Very thoughtful and verrrrrrrry niiiiiiiiice!
