I am not saying what you're doing is wrong at all, I just think my course of action may be better for me. If this does end in D I cannot never talk to her again. We have a D together so we will always be a part of each others life.
What I have seen from my W I am not sure staying friendly is making it easier on her. In fact staying there for her has perhaps made it harder for her to let go. But really IDK. I am really just trying to be the guy I want to be. One who can stay positive even in the worste times. Like I said I was not known as a positive person, so this is a change for me.
I don't feel like I am holding her hand. I will NOT help her with the D. That is 100% her if that is what she chooses.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
