Another New Day 2

[islander]

I am on the gulf coast, and I am fishing from the beach. Awsome fun, it gives me something to look forward to. However my workouts have suffered as well as some Boise work bc you fish all day. But I am not worried about that too much right now.

I personally don't thi k staying "friends" during the A is the best cousre of action. I don't want to be the man that held my Ws hand while she had an A to make it easier on her. If you believe she really, and I mean REALLY wants to be your friend in the end, I think you are o ly helping her leave you by allowing her to think this will ever happen.

I don't mean to suggest that you show anger towards her. I let my W know along time ago that I forgive her, and that I forgive her everyday for what has happened. That does not mean ghat I will be there for her, that I will be her freind, and I have told her that if we do get the D, that i will never speak to her again. I was not threatening her, but just letting her know. It is up to her if she believes me or not, but it is the truth.

She knows, and has even said on several occasions, that I have changed, that she knows I love her and would do anything for her and out M, that she knows she could be happy with me, and that she knows I would never hold this against her to try to hurt her or get back at her. I feel that if she knows this, I have done my job., there is nothing more that I can do but let her go and hope she comes back. If I am wrong, please let me know. I consider all the advice that I am given, and really think about other perspectives.