Like you said country, it is difficult to know what is working. I think what I am doing os getting a positive response. Like I said, if she did not care, I don't think I would get any response. I don't respond to things that I truly don't care about.
I am serious that I will never be just friends with my W, and I am willing to put that on the line. I believe that my W really doesn't want to lose me like that, but if it happens, it was nit my decision. You talked about the friend zone. Every sitch is different. That won't work with me. I will be friendly with her when I have contact I any form, but I will not be her friend that is what she thinks we are, and she would be happy going along with that.
Country, does your W consider you a friend now, or up untilshe began her A. If so, maybe putting that on the line will elecit a good response. If not, then maybe you should be her friend. Just a thought.
Lately, i have been doing a lot of saltwater fishing, and I caught, filleted and ate my first fish yesterday. I can say I am hooked, and that is how I will be spending a lot of my time. It is peaceful fishing on white sand beaches. I had never done it until two weeks ago, and I dis not think I would like it. I could not have been more wrong.
Books that I recently read that I thought were great are 5LL and His Needs Her Needs. If my W ever comes back, I will reread them again, starting with 5LL. if she doesn't, I will read them in my next R.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...