I don't know why put I'm in a posting mood tonight.
On the last page of my old thread I mentioned that even thou I'm seeing some positive progress I got a gut check today when my W and kids told me my little guy started to use potty today. Wearing underware and all. It hurt to hear that. I want to be there with him, tell him good job and the I'm proud of him. (I said all that over phone but wanted to be there)
Well I sulked for about an hour and then stopped and decided that I can be a part of this. I text W telling her how happy I was that little Scorpio was potty training and that I wanted to help out by making him a potty chart and getting stickers. Middle daughter called a minuet later to talk and W got on and said that would be fine. So I'm gonna make the best damn potty chart every!
On a different topic, I am about as clueless as they come. Especially when it comes to W. Heck the way I started dating my W in High School was we had our first class together our senior year. We would talk everyday and one day out of the blue she bought me a gift. I remember telling my buddy about it a couple of days later and he asked me when I was going to ask her out? I said why would I do that? You think she likes me? He of course was dumbfounded by my blindness.
I bring this up because I just remembered two other things from my saturday night with the W.
1. She made two comments about how she wanted this different if I came back and this different. I agreed and said that there would be a lot of different things but I really didn't think about it until now.
2. The other one was a week ago I told the W that I wanted to do Easter as a family. Since we had kids we would fill fake eggs with candy/toys and hide around house night before. Kids wake, search, play and eat. We go to church with her family, back to in-laws for food and off to my family. She said "ok" no yes or no. Well when we were shopping at Mejiers we bought things to hide in eggs candy/toys plus stuiff for their easter basket and such. When I went to drop her off she asked me if wanted to keep that stuff with me cause it would be easier to hide.
I thought about that today and then kids don't find crap at the house. There are still x-mas gifts from this year they haven't found. So what does it mean that I get to hold the stuff?
It means if she wants it she better invite me to be a part of easter or I'm going to eat that stuff myself.
