Then this last week I started the week by being more dark than normal, but then also tried something else new and through out a comment about our “old plans.”
How is it working for YOU to be trying all the time to get in her head?
Be consistent Country. Not You, not I nor anyone else here knows what your W is thinking or deciding.
You know what you did in the M right? You are changing that right?
Be consistent with your actions. Or she will think you are some guy who is ruled by some whim of her emotion.
The best way I can tell you to know what is working is how much pain it is causing you.
Friend zone?
Does it hurt you to be her friend? Can you be Country while be her friend?
Can you handle being her friend?
If not then you need not to be.
Until you get control over yourself your tactics, and they are tactics if you expect outcomes, are just that.
And she will see right through you to see the man she left.
The sooner you get control of you and what you want the sooner she will see a different Country.
And maybe. maybe.
Want to hang out with that cool new dude.
Don't fear the man you want to be. She will see him or she won't.
You will not do your M a disservice by being that man.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
