I don’t know how the vets do it. This can never progress until W processes the issue she ran away from home from the first time. I don’t know how I will find the capacity to forgive or the patience to outlast.
Everyone that you read about started right where you sit right now Stunned.
It IS hard to see you enduring when you are wrapped up in the emotion of your loss.
It can be done. Believe me.
No matter your doubts right now in yourself and your capacity to do this...
It is not about what you CAN do, for you CAN do it.
It is what you WILL to do.
You decide what hill you will die on.
What thing will break you.
You have an opportunity to show yourself what kind of man you are.
What you believe in. In the face of a sh!tpile of adversity flung at you by your W.
I will tell you this.
She wants you to give in. It will be easier for her to deal with right now if you give in.
It is what she expects.
Most people would.
In the end make it about YOU.
And she may never see what you have done.
But you will.
And so will your children.
You CAN do this Stunned. Will you?
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
