Well, today i followed up with my promise to wife about contacting the funeral home to get her a letter regarding the date of he grandmothers funeral. She asked if i had done i and I told that it should be ready for he to pick up on friday and that i would confirm with them onthursday.
She thanked me and that was it for our interaction.
It was a rough weekend. Only 2 kids went to there mothers and when they came hoe, S13 seemed in a funk. So much so he didnt go to school today, and when i triedto talk to him, he said he had a headache and wasnt feeling well.
I told him i was here if he wanted to talk.
Now i keep a calander of events and i went over this calander for the last year. After every visit, one of the kids that went to moms stayed home sick the following moday.
I have named this trend MMS (missing mommy syndrome). I am taking all the kids for their yearly checkup tomorrow and i will bring it up with the doctor to get his opinion on how to proceed with it. They are obviously missing mom, and it hurts them to leave her on Sunday night. I have told the FT so we ca discuss it at our next session as well.
