I think my thread is getting ready to be locked so I am starting a new one.
Question:
W birthday is Thursday. Before saturday I had not even thought about getting her gift but now I do not know. She kissed me for first time since New Years Eve. It hit me last night when I was trying to focus on positive that SHE KISSED ME. For the last 3 years if W and I had any type of loving contact I had to start it every time. When she told me on Saturday that she started checking out 3 years ago it hit me that even when I went in for good bye kiss in the morning she do it be she never did it first. I think that is a big step for her to be the one who initiated it.
So should do anything? I have 4 ideas.
1. Do nothing
2. Small simple card that says happy birthday. Have good day.
3. Same card but with it send flowers to her grandmother in nursing home.
4. Kids asked me other day that they have no present for mom. So I buy something for her from them. I have them night before so I will be taking them to day care. Thought I could take kids by wife work in morning and have kids surprise her with gift.
