I don't know the whole background but forcing therapy is NEVER a good idea...it can be offered up but you can not FORCE someone to talk in therapy

eating fried chicken every day would only happen if fried chicken were available for every meal
they might want to eat but tough luck if we don't have it

dressing like a hooker as an excuse for rape is insulting

and

have you seen the clothes teenagers wear to school? iy yi yi!!!!

I can't control what clothes my son buys with his own money but I can control what stores I take him too

she may be talking to someone at school or you can even offer options like
there is a therapist blah blah blah that I would like you to see
if you don't want to see her
what about so and so?

I would like you to decide to try to talk to at least one therapist or I will have to stop paying for your cellphone. You can chose to get a job and pay for your cellphone yourself but you have to attend at least 3 sessions in order for me to keep paying for you

natural consequence
she has a choice and she is allowed to choose