Tad my son will be 21 in June. I assume he is ashamed of what his dad did, and therefore blames me. He knows. He is still really inmature at this point. I just wish I could see him for 5 mins. I miss hm soooo badly.
I posted on your thread but will post it here too.
Today I called where my x works. I have a friend there. I was surprised when xh answered the phone. It went like this:
XH: Hello this is ......, can i help you? ME: How is Allen? (I try to ask him thinking if maybe he knows I am ONLY concerned about our son (which I am), he may tell me how son is doing. XH: What? ME: How is our son? XH: Click...hung up as usual.
It's been over 2 yrs., he is remarried with a new baby and is STILL angry! I will NEVER understand.
