He's confused; I'm confused

[canadianMrs.]

I think title sums me up too. This gave me some hope. I am so all over the place about H. Its only been 4 days since I discovered PA and H moved out. That day I would never have thought I would even think about our future. I couldn't admit this anywhere else, but a tiny bit of me still wants to work this out. H was over today and talked about moving home (to save money until we work real arrangements out) I told him I couldn't as long as OW was in picture. I could tell he was thinking that over. I keep telling myself that if we were to fix this, it can't be now. H needs to see what he has lost (because he still goes back and forth about how we got married for the wrong reasons etc) and fix myself. I will work on detaching, GAL and see what happens....and maybe down the road....