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Originally Posted By: figgeroni
do NOT focus on the WHYS of the things she does
the only person that would know that is her and she probably can't even figure it out
you can not focus on their reactions
you just have to focus on your actions
be pro-active not reactive
Thanks for the focus check, figg. You are correct. I am being reactive right now. I would be better to focus on my actions and keep up my hard work.
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