LIS, I'm sorry it has come to this, but looks like H is riding that coaster hard. I don't think all is lost, just hang in there and work on yourself, work to get off that coaster so you can detach from H's drama.
I'm sorry I haven't been able to follow your sitch, you have been supportive of mine, and I'd like to be there for you too. I suggest you check out the MLC forum, I have been spending more time time there and the vest really know what to say. Maybe your H is in MLC, as he seems so confused.
Take care of yourself!


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go