Forgot to mention, I made a basic DB mistake that I have to watch myself on. I brought some mail to my W yesterday, one thing was the bill for our D2 health insurance. We take turns paying it. She was looking thru her mail and found it. She immediately said "I have no idea how I'm gonna pay this." I said don't worry about it, that I would cover it. She adamantly refused to take the money and said she would figure out something. I need to try to stop being a Mr. Fixit. I should have just validated that money must be tight for her and let it go. Fixing is still second nature for me but I gotta work on that.
