How long does one typically go in between sessions with their coach? I am waiting until next week, as I have my one on one with my MC, and then my W has hers two days later. I think I really like this MC. Even though we only have seen her once (she is on spring break this week) she gives me a good vibe that she wants to help us work out our marriage. I think I will probably schedule Jody for that time. Unfortunately, I just can't afford to do more than a few sessions with her. EAP is paying for our MC, and we get 16 of those for free, which is great!
I am trying to avoid it when my wife says things that hurt, and trying to really make her feel like I am strong, and not weak. It's so hard though. We are living seperate lives under the same roof.
I hate that we literally went from "I love you's" every day to really nothing at all. Just BYE in the morning and HEY when she gets home. I know she is bothered just as much as I am, but she doesn't show it. I wear it on my chest sometimes, even though I intend not to.
Me- 33 W - 27 M - 4 T - 5 SD- 8.5 S- 4 (deceased) D- 2.5