Despite what some may think, for the last 2 weeks I have had a huge upswing on the "disconnecting" phase. I faked it, till I made it. I actully have seconds of I just don't care.
H was away this weekend to his mom's house. He made all the contact with me. I only responded twice. Late yesterday, afternoon I could tell he was getting frustrated that I didn't text back. There was no reason, he didn't ask me a question. I went to bed early. He got home sometime after 8pm. I woke to him covering me up. He then went on to tell me the pasta I made was the best he has ever had. Good, I went back to sleep.
This morning he was overly chatty with me. I responded as if I was talking to the neighbor. He actually made my lunch (2x in 8 years, poured my coffee, made my travel mug ect..I acted again like he was the server at a resturant. THEN, he started to clean the stove. Honestly, I wasn't sure he knew we even had a stove. I was doing something with my computer and he slipped and called me "sweetie" He recovered just as fast.
I don't know, but he does seem more intrested. It was been 3 moths of personal changes, that have become habbit. Maybe he believes them
me:51 H: 48 No kids together M:14 years seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11 Piecing 09/14
