The year of not my problem

[AJM]

DIL, I appreciate that feedback. I really do and it's a question I was asked by a friend last night as well. The thing is, I'm not sure where to go from here. My kids have so far refused therapy and the ex isn't helpful on that front. I was hoping that the last legal salvo she sent would result in a mandated therapy session for the kids. But I can't count on that.
I'm honestly open to suggestions on this one. I know my daughter is angry and soooooo much more and it's really not about me in many ways. I can look back and see that. But she is angry at us both for the situation and lately has just been swinging back to the ex as the favored parent. But it is not right and I am not hoping for the best or things to work out. I'm hoping for a way I can help my daughter and my son and I'm coming up blank. Still reaching out to others to look for help, but haven't found it yet.

If you have suggestions or advice or anything, I'd love to hear it. I really would.

Thanks for taking the time,

AJ