Yes, innocent, I agree. Affairs are so damaging. I was the most secure and trusting wife. It deeply saddens me that something so innocent and one that involved my sweet son had such a negative impact on me. It hurt all of us.

I needed to give my H the time and space to come out of his MLC. Now I need the time and space to recover from the A. Strange how I often feel blamed and shamed for MY reactions to this all. Wish I could be as calm and as gracious as Meg Ryan in The Women (movie)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0430770/
Wish I had a Candice Bergen mother figure to guide me the way she did.

BTW, great....fantastic movie. It's a true DB movie if you ask me.

I'm skipping over to Kalni's thread now.

MZ

M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.