AJ - I have some other thoughts about the bag. You know as well as I do that men have a REALLY hard time picking out clothing, etc. for our wives. Maybe he did put a great deal of thought into it but came up a little short. It may not be your style, but I can tell you from my own personal experience, I think it is the thought that counts here. You seem to interested in the specifics of the bag itself. what have you done in the past when your H has bought you gifts. Exchanged them? If so, consider this as a 180 opportunity.
I guess I wouldn't return it if I was in your shoes.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated