......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[Sanderika]

(((((GAG)))))

I am sorry for your loss.

Continue to be there for the family as you have for XMIL. Take time out for yourself as well. This week will be very difficult.

I would plan to attend the services out of respect for XMIL and the family. I would call Mr. GAG and XSIL and let them know you are planning on attending the services. They will be very happy to hear this.

I do not think you should worry about your position as to where you belong. IMO, you belong standing with the rest of the family. XMIL loved you like a daughter. The family recognizes your valuable support and unselfish dedication to their mother during these past few months.

Mr. GAG has expressed to you he is very happy you have been "there". Give him a day or so to absorb this and then make contact to see if he needs anything.

Take care this week, my thoughts will be with you....

Sanderika