GAG I'm so sorry for your loss...I don't think that you need anyone's permission to attend XMIL's funeral, but you can inform XSIL or XH that you are going to be there and maybe offer your help with the preparation of the wake. You XH will need some extra support to deal with this, hopefully he will look to you for that
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
