Ok...update from last night. I was looking good! I had such a positive attitude AND a lot of confidance. When we got there, we got in our seats and saw the two other girls that we have been talking to for a few weeks. They were sitting a little farther away from us. So, when the game starts, I started texting one of them for some reason. It went back and forth for a while with her reading my text, then looking up at me and laughing (they were still in front of us but a few rows down). I was also having loads of fun with my buddies that went with me. I guess from where my W was sitting, she could see me (I didn't know where she was sitting and didn't want to find out). My W text me near the end of the first period and asked if she could come over tomorrow (today) at 10 and for me to tell our friend to look over at her. I guess she thought I was looking for her and knew where she was. I told our friend that she wanted her to look at my W but had no idea where she was. I replied to the text that she can can come over at 10 but I wouldn't be there (church). She then replied Church, when do you leave and I will come over earlier. I responded with "I will be walking before church. You can come over and see the dogs while I am at church. I will leave some of your things on the dining room table for you.". She replied that the main reason for her coming over was to show me how to use the sprinkler system and that she will just make it another time so I could spend some time with the dog she took.
While this texting is taking place, the period ended and I went down to sit next to one of the girls to talk to her...My other buddy came down too. We were all have fun and laughing with one of the girls occasionally slapping my knee or things like that. I would hear that my wife replied and I would wait a few minutes to grab my phone (knowing she could see me). She then asked about an older hockey player if I remembered his name. I told her the name and she said he was sitting near her. I replied with an "OK" and that was it. For the rest of the night, I had fun, laughed, and just looked good.
I did eventually see where my W was sitting (almost directly in front of us on the other side of the arena). I know she could see everything from there. When the players would move the puck past the area that my W was sitting in, I would move my head with the puck but look at her. She looked bored and was playing with her phone...Other times, she was looking in my direction. I never just looked over there so she had no way to know I saw her. Her and her friend left with about 3 minutes to go in the game.
AFTER the game, the three of us (my buddy and one of my wife's friends) went out with the two ladies that we have been talking with. We ended up going to a dance club with a lot of horney young people. We talked for a bit, until the hockey players showed up then the 2 girls were over with them. I stayed where I was talking with my friends for a while until I started thinking about my W. Even though my buddy drove us, I told him I was going home and would walk to my car. And that is what I did.
Questions....Did I do the right thing here? I was showing that I was having fun and not giving my W an instant response to her texts...I was nonchalant about her visit too. And there were plenty of people at the club that know my W and I know it will get back to her I was there (I have nothing to be ashamed about either as I didn't talk to anyone but my friends). Was all of this the right play?
