He's justifying ... that's what MLCers do. They rewrite history to suit/explain their present foolishness. Having an A is no way to leave a M. If you're unhappy ... you leave, but you prepare your spouse and children. You try and do marriage counseling. You walk away when all has been tried ... not when you find someone else.

Don't buy into this ... keep working on yourself, and detach from his weird history rewriting.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim