Just updating/journalling. Communication has remained pretty steady, again, mostly business/kid stuff. I have continued with my walking and have been really busy with work, volunteer and household stuff.

H is still sick and it has been over two weeks now. Could possibly be why the communication/flirty stuff has cooled down too, who knows. Friday night I got a text from him asking if I was around or out. I was out and asked why. He explained he had hockey and kids wanted to stay home so he wanted them to have someone to call in case of emergency. He said he could get this lady across the street but that they would likely be more comfortable with me. I agreed that I would scoot over if they needed me which didn't happen. I sent him a message about an hour after he was to be home just saying that I assumed he was there and everything was ok. No response from him but D starting texting me saying that she could hear Daddy snoring and coughing on the couch. I told her to get him some medicine and a glass of water and to try to go to sleep.

Saturday around noon, I get a response from H saying that everything was good and that he didn't think they moved from the time he left for hockey. I told him I knew, D had sent me a text and he went on about how sick he has been.

This morning, I woke up to H calling. I answer it to hear D singing a wake up song, very loudly and obnoxiously. I giggled and H took the phone away from her and said, she has been singing that for the last half hour straight, she made up a wake up song, just thought I should share it with you. I said yeah, thanks for that ... and H said to her, go sing that to your brother. I kindly reminded him that might not be the best idea, S likes his sleep and it might not make for the best start of the day. He laughed and said you're right, D, don't go wake S up. I then talked to D for a couple of minutes before saying good bye so I could get some coffee into me. It was a cute phone call and a reminder that he does think about me.

Well, all for now, gotta go continue with my life.


Me: 41
STBXH: 36
D: 11
S: 9
BOMB 12/2009
SEPARATED 5/2010
D SERVED BY ME 9/2010
FINAL D When I'm ready